Tuesday, July 1, 2014

Baby G

We were so excited to tell our immediate family at graduation that we were expecting a baby. When we found out, it was almost impossible to keep it a secret. Nick would give me a goofy grin anytime something was mentioned about babies and I was worried people would find out very early on. We both did pretty well with keeping it a secret. I was the first person to flub to someone - when my best friend asked me at work if I was pregnant. I didn't know what to do, so I told her to meet me outside and I would answer her. We walked outside of the building and she screamed when I told her. I was excited that she would know, but I basically threatened her and swore her to secrecy. We also told Josh before he went into the MTC so he could hear it from us, since he would miss the announcement just a few days later.


We told our family after graduation. I had made candy leis for each of them, and I told Jake to record me giving gifts to everyone, and Nick had asked Molly to record on his phone. After giving everyone their leis, I handed Nick a t-shirt that read, "Graduating to Dad". I was about 10 weeks when we told them. Our families were so excited and that moment made it worth keeping it a secret. I even kept it from my mom, and I may have lied to a few people when they asked. Sorry! I was also able to tell my brothers the morning after graduation, which was bittersweet since we were moving so soon.

We waited to tell our extended family and friends until we knew things were a little more stable. Because we were moving all the way across the country, my insurance provider said that I should just wait to go in for my first appointments and tests until we had moved to Boston. Since I had no complications or awful symptoms, we waited until we had moved in to see a doctor. I was even more frustrated when after we moved in I had to wait another two weeks until my appointment. I felt like I'd waited long enough - I still didn't know anything about the baby and it didn't feel real yet. I was also super worried that something may be wrong, and I wouldn't know about it. Also, hormones don't help with the worrying and anxiety of not knowing what is happening and the stress of moving across the country.

We finally got into the doctor and I felt a lot better knowing that I was very healthy and had been taking good care of myself. We were able to hear a strong, consistent heartbeat at the doctor's and an ultrasound was scheduled for my 18th week. Knowing that everything seemed to be alright, we decided to announce to everyone that I was pregnant! We managed to keep it a secret until my second trimester. Luckily, I haven't had any morning sickness at all, and mostly I'm just exhausted all the time.

We're grateful for everyone's love and support and we hope that you'll love our munchkin as much as we do already. It's amazing thinking about what is about to happen in our lives and I'm so excited to be starting a family with my best friend!

Moving!

Moving cross-country was quite an adventure. To prepare to move we sold all our furniture since it wasn't worth the money to get it to Boston, I had been packing since I had finished working, and we sold the last month of our apartment contract. Nick put a hitch on our car because it was cheaper than renting a truck and hauling our car.

When the day came to pick up the trailer, we had a bit of a surprise. We had reserved the smallest enclosed trailer that U-Haul carries, and reserved it at a store that said they had them the day before we were moving. The afternoon we showed up to get the trailer, it was larger than what we had ordered. They had upgraded us for free because they didn't have the smallest size. While this may seem like a great gesture, for us, it was not. Nick had already figured out how much our stuff weighed and with the smallest trailer's weight we were pushing the limit on what our car could tow already. With the heavier trailer, we were pretty sure our transmission would be shot. We did appreciate not having to try and cram everything into the trailer, we had more room, and we got to keep several small things we were probably going to end up throwing away.


We stayed up most of the night before we left cleaning our apartment (thank you to Steve and Carlie for helping). We ended up sleeping on the floor that night and woke up, packed the rest of the trailer, and checked out of our apartment. Our landlady was nice enough to take a picture of us right before we hopped in the car.


To start the drive we decided to go straight through the mountains first, so if we broke down, at least we'd still be in Provo Canyon close to family and not stranded. It was very slow-going, but we soon realized the car would be able to handle the weight, as much as we could tell. We did have some issues through the middle of the country with 30-40 mph winds battling us with the large trailer catching the air. Our gas mileage was awful, but the drive took us 4 days and we stopped each night and stayed in a hotel.

Highlights of the trip:
-Nick was super nice and let his pregnant wife sleep during most of her driving turns the last two days
-Visiting my hometown and eating a Chicago hot dog at my favorite restaurant
-Nick getting caught in a dust storm while pumping gas in the middle of nowhere
-Our car and the transmission still works
-Every thing in the trailer made it in one piece!


We made it safe and sound to Maine and hung out with family for over a week before we could move into our apartment. We loaded up the trailer again and drove to Boston and moved into our new fancy apartment. Coming from a 50's cement block 1-bedroom apartment, our brand new 2-bedroom apartment makes us feel like real adults.


May 2014

May was an exciting month for us. We went to Las Vegas, sent Josh on his mission, and Nick graduated! Graduation was even more fun because Sam, Steve, and Carlie were also graduating.

Before we left the West, I wanted Nick to show me around Las Vegas since I had never been. We stayed in the Excalibur, walked around the strip, saw the Bellagio fountains, and checked out all the major hotels. We may have gotten lost in the MGM Grand - not sure how people navigate that place when they're drunk.



Our favorite hotel was New York, New York. It is just an impressive structure with all of the different buildings, the roller coaster, and then having New York restaurants and facades inside the building. Very cool.


We got to pick up Josh from the airport before he went into the MTC. He slept at our house and we could tell he was filled with nervous excitement, he couldn't stop talking the whole time he was with us. We were really glad to be able to spend some time with him before he left. He'll do a great job in Colorado!


Graduation was a blast! We were glad a lot of family was able to attend with everyone graduating at once.